They say it's good when everything is good ...
Everyone has experienced "difficult" situations in life, when it seems that "everything is bursting at the seams", even suffering is present. If it was our will, we would choose a different scenario, for example: so that everything is good, tasty, easy ...
But also, if we look back and analyze such situations, we will discover that such an experience is beneficial to us. We become less delusional, correct our behavior and become better.
Perhaps it could even be called "forced improvement."
So this is what I mean: difficult situations, most likely, in our life have been, are and will be. The point is to change your view of these situations and "turn defeat into victory."
Even though when we are in the moment, in the center of the storm, we do not feel this "growth of the soul", but past experience can show us that in fact, the process is happening right now and this process makes us better.
This point of view can radically change the vision of the situation and remind us that, in general, it is better to focus not on suffering, but on what lesson we learn from this and become better))
I wish you all best)